She said, "What an opportunity!"
A 60 year old woman from New York--her accent revealing that she was a lifetime New Yorker--asked aloud, "When am I ever going to get a chance to be on a sailboat, off the coast of Costa Rica, in the Pacific, so close to the equator?"
It is easy to forget--or lose track of your surroundings. Vacations usually heighten our awareness, but we can forget here too.
In the wake of comedian Robin Williams's death, a piece of a quote of his strikes me. After working on a film after getting out of rehab, he said, "I'd forgetten how fun it is to work with your friends."
I'd add doing anything with your friends, but I share his sentiment. I work with some people I consider dear friends and they do, indeed, make work fun.
We shouldn't ever need to apologize for friendships, should we?
Friendships make everything better. Our entire vacation has been enhanced by friendships all around us--new ones, old ones, rekindled ones, and friendships maintained over great distances and time.
Jack Kerouac wrote that friendship is knowing that no matter how much time and distance ever comes between two people, when reunited it is as if they never left.
Since marrying in May 2013 my best friend has led me to Italy and Costa Rica, has helped me through surgery and recovery, and filled in the gaps everywhere in between.
Friendships have made me a better teacher, writer, and coach.
Friendships have opened doors and presented opportunities that I never could have attained alone.
No one ever apologizes for great marriages, vacations, or friendships...and no one ever forgets them. In my life, all are infinitely better because of the friendship factor.
A little girl and a 60 year old woman gave me some perspective yesterday. After all, when is the next great opportunity to be with friends in a magnificent part of the world?
And next week when I return to work.
Every day is a great opportunity to be with friends and welcome new ones. Every place is a great opportunity to be a part of something new.
The trick for me is not forgetting that...and not apologizing for it.